Hi WebFlake,
At the moment, as default on IP.Board, when you send a friend request to another user it is automatically accepted, unless the user has changed this in the profile settings for himself/herself.
This tutorial will show you how to set it as default that users have to accept friend requests from other users. There are no built-in options for that in the ACP, so you will need to run a SQL query to change the default setting. It will check the "Allow me to approve members before they're added as a friend" check box for every current member and future members on your site.
UPDATE profile_portal SET pp_setting_moderate_friends=1;ALTER TABLE profile_portal CHANGE pp_setting_moderate_friends pp_setting_moderate_friends TINYINT(1) NOT NULL DEFAULT '1';
Text Tutorial:
1. Go to support > SQL Management > SQL Toolbox
2. Scroll to the bottom and paste the above coding into the box and hit Run Query
3. Query successfully done
Picture tutorial:
Thanks,
Kingy