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Hello colleagues. Tell me in advance if it's not the right subforum. I have had a problem for months that has made me crazy. I have a forum for more than 10 years. with a minimum of 50-100 online users and peaks of 500. I have always had ipb3. But in March I upgraded to ipb4 and that's where my problems came. Since then it is almost impossible to navigate, the forum freezes when there is more activity and it is frustrating. Bored of not finding solutions, last week I migrated (more than 1gb) to xenforo, but the freezing problems continue. I no longer know if it is a problem that my server (digital ocean) falls short, configuration or I do not know. I ask you for advice to create a hosting (features) to be able to install and migrate the forum (I don't care about the system, I want performance) Thank you very much in advance. P.S. Excuse my English from Google translator

This has come out at the moment of frozen: PID USER PRI NI VIRT RES SHR S CPU% MEM% TIME+ Command 824 mysql 20 0 686M 208M 7992 S 10.9 10.4 47h22:36 /usr/sbin/mysqld --basedir=/usr --datadir=/var/lib/mysql --plugin-dir=/usr/lib/mysql/plugin --user=mysql --skip-log-error --pid-file=/var/run/mysqld/mysqld.pid --socket=/ 18199 www-data 20 0 498M 60824 47884 S 7.1 3.0 4:54.29 php-fpm: pool www 17948 www-data 20 0 142M 3904 2564 S 0.5 0.2 10:23.33 nginx: worker process 893 postgres 20 0 149M 1864 1784 S 0.5 0.1 24:04.00 postgres: writer process 485 root 20 0 413M 10852 9132 S 0.5 0.5 8:03.72 php-fpm: master process (/etc/php/7.3/fpm/php-fpm.conf) 22998 www-data 20 0 501M 58140 41268 S 0.0 2.8 0:36.86 php-fpm: pool www 22224 www-data 20 0 501M 61708 44980 S 0.0 3.0 1:16.10 php-fpm: pool www

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Hello guys. I need your help. I have an IPS forum that has always been great, but since I migrated to IPS4 the forum freezes constantly. Does not allow writing without freezing 10-15 seconds. It is frustrating. Do you know what I can do? I don't mind changing the server machine if necessary. I'm desperate. Can you give me a hand? This is my PHP info: http://forosevillagrande.es/info.php