I found a way to solve the Shoutbox 4.1.4.1 emoji problem and I will try to explain it here.
Go to ACP,->CUSTOMIZATION->Emoji->Custom Emoji->Add Custome Emoji then upload desired emoji files to an exiting or new set->Save->Save again on Emoji overview page->ACP System->SITE FEATURES->Applications->Shoutbox->open drop down menu at far right of page->Upload a new version->then reinstall the same Shoutbox 4.1.4.1 application from your drive->Your Site->refresh the page and voila! The emojis are ready to use!
I don't know why I decided to try this and I don't know why this works but it does work for me. Each time I add a new emoji or set of emojis I reinstall the app afterwards and it works. Go figure.
Don't go crazy and add too many emojis/animated emojis like I did. My server and Cloudflare couldn't handle the load and I got 522 and 508 errors and the site went off line. Don't know why that happened either so just add them in moderation.
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